Tommy and one bad apple….

Hi Tommy,

I fully agree with you that it’s a great feeling to know that Elena is paying the price for what she did. As far as we can see, she’s not working at any agency or scamming anyone now. We’ll continue to keep our eyes open for Elena’s behavior at all the web sites we track for clients.

Tommy….. I think what’s important now is for you to move on. I’ve seen too many men come to Nikolaev, get scammed and continue to dwell on her and what happened for months on end. I realize how easy it is for this to consume a person. We get to see it first hand just about everyday in Nikolaev.

The bigger problem is what it’s doing to you, not….what you’ve accomplished by getting even. The longer you make her pay, the more time wasted for you. If you continue to spend time going after her, each day will force your life to stand still. You need to live your life, not hers. You need to take the knowledge you’ve learned and use it to help you with your search for a real woman.

It should be obvious that her parents and family will stand with her long before they will with you, no matter what she did. Sending her parents letters makes a statement and it has made her look bad, without question. You did what you wanted to do, you embarrassed her in the eyes of her family. She’ll be paying the price for a very long time. The best thing any man can do after being scammed, is to do his utmost to embarrass a girl in the eyes of her family and get her tossed off all web sites.

Since you got her kicked off all the web sites, she has no job. Honestly? Seriously? YOU SIR, ARE MY HERO!!! You’ve stopped her from scamming someone else, at least for the moment.

You’ve taken the time to do many of the same things to Elena as she did to you. She stole your money. She wasted your time. She lied to you repeatedly. She brought you to Ukraine under false pretenses. She tried her best to scam you while you were in Nikolaev. She lied to the marriage agency and didn’t tell them that she was meeting you. She used a friend to act as the interpreter so she could scam you and stop the agency from making any money. She lied to you when she said she had to go home, but she was actually online at Dream and who knows what other web sites scamming, scamming and scamming. All the time, making you waste your time just sitting at your flat waiting for her to meet with you.

There’s no question this girl is rotten. She has no moral ethics, she’s not honest at any level. She’s not afraid to steal from the marriage agency where she was working in chat. She wasn’t afraid to ask you to buy her gifts while you were in Nikolaev. She screamed at you over the phone telling you to give her money. She lied to you about not speaking English and on and on and on.

Sadly, this story is more the norm than the exception. Good girls just don’t go to marriage agencies any longer. For all of them, it’s just a job. I hope something I said helped and that you move on to find the woman searching for you. I can tell you that there are many serious, honest women in Nikolaev searching for a real man. You just need to know how to pick through the bad apples.

Billgreen54
Life is an Adventure, live it

John in Florida shares a few thoughts…. Billgreen54, Nikolaev

Larisa and I first met John in Nikolaev one and a half years ago.  He’s been a great friend ever since and has helped many men with their search with information and sharing his personal experiences.   If you would like to be added to our mailing list, just send an email to billgreen54@gmail.com….. Enjoy!

HI John,

Finally, I have some time and write you.  The last few weeks have been crazy here.  Once September one hit, we have been buried. Yours is the last Email I need to answer and my in box will be empty.  I get at least a dozen letters a week just from new guys who find me on the Internet somewhere.

Last week, we taught 36 lessons.  We didn’t finish teaching until 9 Saturday night and we taught one class on Sunday too. Then, we had a small party with our students and went to visit friends until just about 9 last night.  Once we got home, I had a Skype conference with a client in The UK.

When you add all of that to clients, people who need information, etc… it makes for an exciting way of life.

I would love to write a book.  It’s my next major goal in life.  November will mark the second full year I’ve lived in Nikolaev.  I hope to find some time to write sometime during the holidays.  My biggest problem will be what to write about.  Honestly?  I have way too much to write about.  Larisa and I were talking recently, we both think a cookbook would be a great idea and certainly would be a lot more fun than writing about all the bad stuff.  I think we have about a million stories to tell now)  Certainly at least a couple hundred.

One of the great benefits of writing, teaching and helping clients as much as I have over the past four years is the writing practice I get.  The experiences we’ve gained and what we’ve learned about business is a major bonus for both Larisa and myself.

We are glad you are doing well.  Can you give me an update for how your meeting went?  Please keep me apprised with your lady friend in South America.

Also?  Please feel free to go to our new Forum at http://billandlarisa.lefora.com and share your experience with others.

Could you send me the contact information of the company you are using to search in South America?  We have dozens of clients who have stopped searching in Ukraine.

You are right to think the best way to find a real woman is to go to her country and meet her in person.

Yes, give my Email to anyone who needs some guidance or help regarding Ukraine.

Thank’s for writing, best regards……  Bill

Hi Bill, how is it going?  Thanks for keeping me on your mailing list.  I feel really bad for these guys who go to the Ukraine to find a woman and return empty handed.  I’m sure you can write a book by now of all the experiences you have had.As for me, I did find a nice lady in Colombia South America.  I met her believe it or not at an agency, but before you roll your eyes, this agency is one of the few really good ones if you can believe that.  The owner is an American guy from California.  Just to give you a sample of how he runs his business….he does NOT sell addresses of the women from his WEB site.  You have to meet the ladies in person to get his services, and when I look back on all of my experiences with meeting ladies overseas, I really believe he is correct.  I am actually going to go to Colombia this coming Friday to visit my girlfriend.  From Miami, it’s only 2 1/2 hours by air, but I still have to drive 3 1/2 hours to the Miami airport from my town here in Florida.

I wanted to ask if you are still helping guys out like before because would you believe I received a message from a guy in Australia asking me for your address.  He is corresponding with a lady in Nikolaev and he did tell me he sent her some money for English lessons, but that’s it.  Let me know if it’s OK to give him your address.

Ok Bill, hope things are going well for you and say Hi to Larisa for me!!!

Take Care,

John

Ectaco iTravel and Partner ER900

Hi Jeff,

I’ve never used the scanner, so I really have no advice to give you there.
The iTravel is the second unit we have. The reviews are correct regarding the battery life. Even when it’s sitting idle it loses battery life dramatically and needs to be recharged within 8 hours sitting idle turned off. After sitting idle for 8 hours the battery is always totally exhausted and can’t be used until you recharge for at least an hour. When we are using it, battery life is no more than two hours. I would not recommend the iTravel to anyone for this main reason. The other problem with the iTravel is that it often hangs up and we need to reset or remove and replace the battery. It is extremely undependable. I would not invest in this product again.
If the 900 is the latest version of the 800, I would buy it without any problems at all. We have owned the 800 for nearly three years now and it works just fine. While it is a little bigger than the Itravel, the keyboard is of great benefit. Easy to use and easy to read. You should only buy the Russian memory card. You do not need to invest in the Ukrainian card.
I too have read many reviews regarding Ectaco products and their customer service problems. For the most part their customer service is terrible. I have personal experience here too. When I first started using the Itravel, I contacted their customer service. Trust me here. ECTACO’S CUSTOMER SERVICE IS TERRIBLE.

Let me know what you plan to buy and what happens.

Bill

Jeff’s letter…….

Thanks Bill.
Hey a follow-up to the translator. I checked out Ectaco looks like the newer version of the 800 is the 900 and they also have an ITravel: The 900 is on sale for the same price as the ITavel.
Both of the above include the scanning pen which I think would be useful in restaurants reading menus, but other than that don’t know if I used it. Could save $80 by eliminating that option. Have you any experience with the scanning pen and is it worth the $80?
At Amazon the reviews were not to good especially for the ITravel, but mostly because the battery life is not good and others were expecting more out of the speech recognition application. On another site the reviews were outstanding for the ITravel and it recently won an award at the Consumer Electronic Show here in Vegas last year.
What’s your experience with the battery life with your 800?
It appears the functionality of the ITravel is better as you could hold it in your hand and use it whereas the 900 seems like you need to place on a table or can you type on it while holding it in your hand?
I talked to the sales rep at Ectaco and he said the 900 and ITravel are very similar, but thought the 900 was better because the keyboard allowing you to type faster whereas the ITravel has a virtually keyboard.
Your thoughts are very much appreciated!
Thanks,

Jeff

A Letter to Robert…….

Hi Robert,

We’re happy to help any way we can. I started searching for Larisa almost 4 years ago. I’m glad she found me:) I met her on the Internet nearly three years ago. I’ve lived in Nikolaev teaching English and helping clients for nearly two years.

Can I ask where you are from? Why are you searching overseas? What is your age?

I’d like to send you some information regarding what we do here. If you would allow me to send you a few emails and add you to our mailing list, that would be great. Just let me know.

I have a couple of thoughts to share with you that are key to better understanding the process of searching for a woman to love and love you in a FSU country.

Go into this with open eyes.

Never send money to any woman without first meeting her in person.

Never send gifts or money to a woman for any reason.

Never pay for English lessons to any web site, marriage agency or woman.

Age does matter. The average age difference of a multi cultural relationship is 9 years.

Twenty years in age difference is the absolute maximum.

Verify, verify, verify all information between you and a lady.

Remember that, just like in any society and relationship, honesty and trust must be earned by time, actions and deeds. Be very careful trusting a woman on the Internet before you’ve actually met her in person and you’ve developed a positive, ongoing relationship.

As with any new technology, a person must be skilled and experienced to take full advantage of the benefits of the Internet. Understand that communicating and considering a relationship with a woman overseas, puts at risk every asset you own, both financially and emotionally.

The entire process of searching for a life partner in an FSU country is a journey in life that will most likely take no less than two years of your life or more.

As far as web web sites. They’re there to make money, just like any for profit enterprise anywhere. You should regard all web sites as nothing more than an introduction service. Communicating with a woman on the Internet should be done in stages for many reasons. Letters…. no more than a month to six weeks at two per week both ways. Chat, with video is a must for no more than a few weeks from time to time. Phone conversations and SMS for a few weeks. Two way video chat with the help of an interpreter for the first time depending on language skills from both sides. All of these ways to communicate should also be done in combination with each other. If you get to this stage with one woman and your sixth sense kicks in, or you just want to come and meet her, then it’s time to meet face to face in her country.

Lastly, no man should do this alone. No man should search for a woman to love and share his life with from another country without the help of a friend that has a basic knowledge of this process. Having an outside view of your ongoing situation is an absolute must to help you accomplish your goals and to help you responsibly manage and protect your time and money.

The First Meeting…. by Billgreen54

For the Man……..Thoughts and Perspectives…….
The first time you actually come and meet a lady in a foreign land, what should you plan for?. What should you expect? How should you act? What should you say? How do you speak to her in another language? Should you meet her alone or with a friend or interpreter? Should I show her photos of my stuff? Should I give her an expensive gift? What should we do together at the first meeting? What kind of flowers would she like? The first time we meet, should we kiss, shake hands or hug? And last…… Confusing emotions and feelings with words before we meet face to face…….. There are too many subjects to try and cover here including culture, table manners, superstitions, drinking alcohol, which hand to toast with and why, who should pour, what not to do, meeting her family, offensive statements, joking, teasing and more. Be very careful in these areas of conduct, they can cause a great deal of misunderstanding and more.

Knowledge Builds Strength and Confidence…….
There are many questions and uncertainties the very first time you meet any woman face to face, but that first hello with a woman born and raised in Ukraine will truly be a life experience you won’t forget. Here is this pretty girl who you’ve written to, spoke to on the phone, chatted with, watched each other on video, sent text messages and more……… Finally, you found the time and reason to come and visit a woman in a foreign land. For the men who are doing this for this first time, it can be a real Life Adventure! But, like anything else that we do in life for, there are a few details to know beforehand to help make our adventure a success. Empower yourself with knowledge and you will know anything in life is possible……..

Establishing Honesty in Not An Option…….
As in any relationship, personal or business, a foundation of honesty needs to be established. This applies to both men and women. If you’re communicating with a woman over the Internet living just down the street or around the world, determining a persons honesty is just about impossible. Trust and honesty is earned by actions and deeds with a great deal of time. Sometimes years, sometimes minutes. Communicating on the Internet with trust takes a gigantic leap of faith in the person you are communicating with. It’s the same for the first meeting and the days that follow for both of you. The need to establish honesty and trust is not an option, it’s the difference between success and failure in everything we do.

Our First Meeting Two and a Half Years Ago…….
The thoughts you are about to read are from my experiences in life spanning 56 years. I will also share the experiences of many others who write me daily and meet us in person in Nikolaev, Ukraine. It was just over three and a half years ago when I decided to begin searching for the woman of my dreams; thank God she found me! Her name is Larisa. We live life to the fullest while we enjoy each day together teaching English and helping friends around the world. After we met on the Internet and communicated for 4 months, we met face to face at the Odessa airport in April, 2007. I remember that first meeting like it was minutes ago. If I could go back in time, I would only wish that I knew then what I know today.

Conversation is Ask, Answer and Ask…….
The first time you meet face to face, just be yourself. Don’t worry about anything but what you want to say. Keep it simple and plan to just find a level of comfort as you both make eye contact and get to know each other. The lady you are coming to meet will be nervous, just like you. She will be just as concerned, worried and nervous as you. That’s a good thing. Try to stay away from subjects that are too complicated. Save that for another day. Think about subjects you both have in common. Ask, answer and ask. I teach conversation skills everyday to students learning English. As you ask and she answers, listen to her answers and choose a few key word subjects. Again, ask, answer and ask. It’s also a good idea to write yourself a few thoughts about what you might discuss. Subjects like the movies, food, travel and jobs are probably something you discussed or wrote about before you met in person. Ask about things to do in her city. What are the sights she has never had the chance to see or visit?

Now the Clock Starts Over……
Be very aware of physical contact and her reaction. You two have just met for the first time and even simple things like holding hands might feel awkward. Remember that getting to know someone takes time. It’s possible to have that chemistry from the very beginning, but the odds are that real chemistry will not materialize the first day or two. You will both be getting to know each other little by little. Don’t be in a hurry to prove anything. The first few days is a time for both of you to get to learn each other. The fact that you both met and communicated long distance might mean very little when you actually meet in person. Communicating from a distance is a way to get to know some things about each other, but it’s impossible to actually get to know the other as a person until you meet face to face and spend time together. The reality is that when two people meet in person even after communicating long distance for months, THE CLOCK STARTS OVER!

Language Difference, It’s not that tough……
Language difference can be a hindrance or a good thing. Look at it like the glass is halfway full instead of halfway empty. Consider the fact that many couples who speak the same language can’t communicate and struggle to find common ground daily. Consider that most divorces begin and end with poor communication. Sharing your thoughts, feelings and more with a woman who speaks another language, can be a real life adventure if you let it. Larisa and I didn’t speak the same language when we first met. We both decided to learn each others language although Larisa is way ahead of me on that one. Trust me, learning Russian will be the second toughest thing you will ever do. We have never used an Interpreter. From the start, Larisa and I agreed that we would use an Electronic Translator to help us communicate. There is a lot more to this. Just remember that it takes two to Tango and two to have a conversation that makes sense. Take one step at a time and you will soon speak the same language.

Meeting for the First Time……
Meeting face to face for the very first time should be done with an Interpreter or a friend of the lady you are meeting. This is for many reasons. Just remember that after the first meeting, both of you can decide to meet alone or with help. If you meet alone, it’s a good idea to use an Electronic Translator and have a phone handy to contact a friend just in case something needs clarification. If you do need an Interpreter, just remember to speak directly to the lady you came to meet, not directly to the Interpreter. Many men and women make the mistake of speaking to the Interpreter and telling her to tell the other what I said sort of routine. A good Interpreter will give you instructions before you have too much to say and translate exactly what you are trying to say. There are occasions where the Interpreter will offer advice to you. This is OK as long as it is limited in time and scope.

Photos and The First Gift……
Meeting a woman for the first time will give you both plenty to discuss. Leave the photos at home or your hotel room. A real woman will just want to get to know you for who you are, not what you own. Showing off your home and automobiles will often send a mixed signal to the lady. She might think you are bragging or trying to convince her that you have stuff that she might like instead of just liking you. Often, a woman can be resentful and feel inferior to you because you have a lot of things that she doesn’t. If you decide to show her your stuff anyway, do it later down the road and definitely, not the first time you meet. Gifts should always be simple and inexpensive. A gift with a maximum value of about ten dollars like a souvenir from home, possibly a pair of earrings should do the trick. It’s not what you gave her, it’s the fact that you remembered her.

Flowers and A Box of Chocolates……
Giving her flowers and a box of chocolates is also a great way to show you care for that first meeting. Remember that a simple box of chocolates from your hometown will most likely be something new to her. Flowers can also be a nice way to say hello for the first time. Any flowers would be nice, but roses are usually the flowers of choice. Three or five would be a good number to start with, red or pink is fine. Remember to always give odd numbers. Even numbered bouquets symbolize death or a funeral. One red rose is fine after you have met a few times and you both know there is chemistry between you. One red rose symbolizes love, so only give her one rose if you are sure she is the one.

Pleased to meet you……
Meeting for the first time should be respectful and sincere. In most cases, a simple handshake and hello is the best way to introduce yourself for the first time. Do not over do it by insisting on a kiss or hug the very first time. If you’ve communicated for some time before you met her face to face, often a person can have feelings or emotions that somehow seem real. This can be the first indication that you are one of the lucky ones or your sixth sense just kicked in. It’s best to reserve any emotions or feelings that you might have. Take it slow and if both of you make it past the first meeting, anything is possible.

Adventure of a Lifetime…

Finding someone to love in any country isn’t easy, nor should it be.   Searching for a woman in a FSU country will be the biggest challange of any mans life.  It’s the same for a woman as well.

Considering the cultural differences is just the tip of the iceburg.  Language, education, culture, family values, health, physical age and finding that chemistry are but a few of the many pieces of the relationship puzzle.

If you are considering a lifelong, loving relationship with a woman from a FSU country, never do it alone.  Seek the advice of a knowledgable friend.  Educate yourself without reservation.  Then, and only then, will you be ready for the biggest challenge of your lifetime.

Sadly, most men who search overseas for a woman to love, will never accomplish his goals.  Most men just give up because it’s just too difficult and the task becomes overwhelming.  Most men make more mistakes than he could have ever imagined in the beginning.

Remember that knowledge is power and power gives a person the inner strength needed to make the right decisions and live a more fulfilled life.  Living that life with a woman from a FSU country will be the adventure of your lifetime.

Bob’s letter and a few thoughts

The following is a letter to me and my response. These are the type of questions I answer everyday. If you are searching for a woman to love and decide to venture out in another country, I’m sure you will find this interesting. Just remember there is a woman searching for you too. She will have many of the same questions and concerns.

I’ve changed the writers name and city where he lives to protect the innocent:)

Hi Bill. I just read your blog site and found it fascinating. I have been corresponding with Tatiana from Nikolaev for about 2 months. I met her through the AFA site. Doing some study on Nikolaev and it sounds better than here! (near Anytown, Oregon) She has told me that she is not ready to leave Ukraine yet. She has a 13 year old son, named Andrew. I’m ok with that. The way the economy here is going, I just may move to Nikolaev! She does speak English fairly well and works as an accountant. I am 54 years of age and she is 46. Is the age difference a problem?

Anyway, I will continue to keep up with the blog and emails.

Thanks so much Bill,

Bob

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Hi Bob

I’m glad someone is reading what I write:) Actually, I get many letters each week from men all over the world;sometimes women too. I just cut back my teaching schedule a couple of weeks ago, so I should have time to write a little more.

It’s been a year since I came to Nikolaev to be with Larisa. Our coaching and mentoring business I started almost three years ago has just exploded over the past 6 months. Larisa and I work together helping clients and running our new language school we opened recently. Along with other teachers, we teach the best English here, both American and British. Many of our clients ask us to teach the lady they are communicating with. Since last January, I’ve taught just over 500 classes in Nikolaev; many times with Larisa’s help. You would be amazed at what I’ve learned sitting face to face with so many students.

Larisa and I do many things for clients. If we can help you in any way, please don’t hesitate to ask. From flower delivery to video chat, translation and third party verification, we stay pretty busy here seven days a week. We also rent apartments, mobile phones and help with transportation as well.

Personally, I don’t care for any web site that charges money for correspondence or chat. That said, if you are truly one of the few lucky couples to find each other around the world, try to get to know her better by talking by phone for a few weeks and then coming here to meet her.

Relationships with a woman from Ukraine is an adventure in itself. I’m glad you have an open mind searching for the woman who is searching for you.

Age difference is very common here between men and women. That said, most people in any country have no idea what love and commitment is until they have enough life experience to make sound decisions. Often men and women under the age of 25 or so, have trouble distinguishing the difference between love and passion. I think that’s one of the many reasons marriages at earlier ages stand a better chance of failure.

A twenty year age difference is the max based on what I know and everything I’ve read. It just makes sense. This said, any two people can fall in love, but is it always a good idea?

It’s my opinion that a women with a child stand a better chance of surviving the culture change if she moves to another country. Having someone close that she feels a sense of responsibility and love besides her new husband can be very important to many women. The age could be another subject depending on how he accepts his new life. For you and her son, getting to know each other and making a friendship will be essential as soon as possible.

There are a thousand other things I could share with you. I always try to answer your questions in a timely fashion, usually within 24 hours. Larisa and I are also available to chat, video chat and speak by phone.

A few other things to consider with this lady…..

Physical age vs metabolic age.
Her ability or desire to move to another country.
Financial obligations now and after marriage from both of you.
Parental and legal responsibilities for the child.
Long term considerations regarding her parents if they are living.
Language difference and attitude towards communicating.

Please feel free to contact me at any time here or at billgreen54@gmail.com. I hope you find the woman searching for you

Paul’s letter and affection

Hey Bill and Larisa

Thanks for the nice replies you always send me….
As far as finding the “right one”….wow….good question. I wonder how anyone can really know….
One thing I am finding out, and that is this……it is very difficult for these women to show affection . Are they caring…? yes…..very. Are they concerned about you? Absolutely. Now are they affectionate? I would say….not really. The only answer I can come up with is ….they want stability? I have no idea…..
But I cannot complain. My life is good….the trips are really great. And I have met you guys right?
Talk to you soon…I sort of wish I was spending more time in Nikolaev. I like the town.

Bye
Paul

Hi Paul,

Finding the right one only happens to the right people. People who know what life and love is all about. Question is… When do we know? How will we know? Who will we find to share our life with who understands us? Larisa has a favorite saying for the time we’ve spent together, “We learn each other”. Only time, dedication to the person we are with, understanding and compromise are the tools we have to use as Larisa says…. Sometimes we like what we learn and sometimes we don’t.

You are correct about stability. Women in Ukraine want it and need it. Often it’s the one part of their life that’s missing. Many women here have never had stability for different reasons. The lucky women here have two parents and know what love and commitment is all about. I know that great parents make great role models. Unfortunately, many younger people here have come from broken homes. I would say that number is close to half the people here.

As for affection, when you find a real woman who commits her body and soul to you, you will feel it. Larisa can be extremely affectionate, she is most of the time:). The difference between American women and Ukrainian women is this….. For the commitment of a woman’s heart here a man is forced to earn every ounce of love and affection. This is the most difficult task a man from America will ever undertake. It has to do with many things including the culture Americans grew up in. Once you’ve captured and earned the heart of a real Ukrainian woman, love and affection will last forever. Trust me, you’ll know it when you find it.

I hope you find the woman who’s searching for you.

Best regards,

Bill

Bill and Larisa, Nikolaev Ukraine

The letter below was recently written by me to Mr. William Cornwal, owner of nikolaevukarine.net. He stated in a post that a man shouldn’t waste his time by coming to Nikolaev searching for a woman to love. I felt the need to better educate him and his readers and offer some first hand knowledge about Nikolaev and Ukraine.  If you would like to know more about Nikolaev, feel free to write us at billandlarisa@gmail.com.

Beautiful, honest, sincere women do exist here just like all cities in the world.  As in any country, men and women meet many different ways including blind dates, meeting friends of friends, social gatherings and sometimes just walking down the street. Also? As in any country, finding the woman who is searching for you isn’t easy, nor should it be.  Love…. True love is forever and takes honesty, trust, understanding, compromise, commitment, time and more……

With all due respect Mr Cornwall, your statements couldn’t be farther from the truth. I met Larisa on the Internet almost two years ago, That would have been December, 2006. We communicated with letters and chat for three months before I spoke with her through an interpreter by phone. She spoke very little English. I decided to come and meet her last April and haven’t looked back since. I suppose I’m one of the lucky ones when it comes to finding a woman to love. But isn’t their a little luck in every great life experience? Larisa and I couldn’t imagine being without each other.

I came back to Nikolaev last November (2007) To spend time with Larisa and learn about Ukraine life and culture. I also wanted to see if a fifty four year old American from California could live and work in Nikolaev.

Guess what? It’s been ten months since my arrival, Larisa and I are more in love than ever, we work together daily and last week I taught 23 English Lessons. Many classes are at a private language school and the rest are at locations throughout the city. I have both corporate clients as well as private. I teach English to lawyers, doctors, dentists, teachers, seaman, students, software developers and others including government employees.  In addition to teaching, my life and relationship coaching has just continued to grow at a steady pace.  It’s been three years since I began helping men and women learn a little more about life.  My philosophy regarding knowledge is that it’s worthless unless you share it with others.

The reason why I tell you all this is simple. Teaching English in Nikolaev allows me to converse and be in contact with real people. Ukrainian men and woman…… I teach all levels of English from Elementary to Advanced. Teaching English gives me the opportunity to ask anything anytime including subjects on life, love, relationships, work….All aspects of life here…….  Some of my students are single men and women who would be willing to consider developing a loving relationship no matter what country a person comes from.

There are some real problems concerning foreign men who come here to meet women. Larisa and I meet many foreigners here every week. Fifty percent of them are not normal. Their personalities are weird and strange or it’s a combination of being too old, fat, bald, toothless with an early onset of Alzheimer’s. That’s why they come here on tours to meet women. Sadly, they will probably never find a real woman to love anywhere in the world.

Billgreen54

Liliya and Peter in Nikolaev

Living in Nikolaev for nearly a year is the adventure of a lifetime. Larisa and I look forward to meeting our friends from Ukraine and around the world as we travel throughout the city everyday. If your planning a trip to Nikolaev, send us a short note at billandlarisa@gmail.com. We’re always happy to meet you and show you around the city.

The following letter is from our friend Peter. He’s in Ireland for the next few weeks, soon to come back and be with his sweetheart, Liliya.

Hi Bill,
Well buddy, me and Liliya have just celebrated our 6 month anniversary even though we are now 3,000kms apart, I know you guys will look after her for me. Taking this enforced leave in the UK & Ireland is certainly taking it’s toll on me mentally. It will be another 7 weeks before my return but hey, what a return it will be. I’m looking forward to my first Ukrainian winter, seeing all you guys again but most of all, looking forward to marrying the “girl of my dreams” in January. You never know mate, play your cards right and maybe you and Larisa will get an invite. People may say Ukraine is bleak in the winter but look here, I can tell you it is bloody bleak wherever you are if you are on your own. So any guys reading this, if you are on your own, get your butts on the next flight to Odessa and cab it down to Nikolaev. Bill and Larisa (sweetie pie) will be there to welcome you but what you must do first is, ask them where Peter is ‘cos “He sounds like a great guy, I wanna buy him a drink”.
Cheers lads, I didn’t think you would ask !!!!!